The Carved Box

June 21, 2010

6.4.10 Lately I’ve been thinking about the power of having done something once – even better if you did it well.  Doing something once creates familiarity with the act.  It is a rehearsal.  The next time you do it, you feel confident and trust your abilities more. I’ve been a negotiator my whole life (with [...]

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Peak Performance States & Photoreading

June 13, 2010

Proof, Peak Performance States & Photoreading “We keep moving forward, opening new doors, and doing new things, because we’re curious and curiosity keeps leading us down new paths”  Walt Disney 6.12.10 Photoreading Refresher Course! The Photoreading class I took in ATL in April was unlike any class I have ever had – and it was [...]

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Science and EFT

April 30, 2010

4.26.10 I love when hard science begins to catch up with “alternative” or social sciences.  This article came out today about Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) and I just have to spread the word… For the last 8 years I have been using EFT for just about anything I can think of.  It is such a [...]

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The Perfect Mediation…

March 30, 2010

3.22.10 This month I saw the perfect mediation Two parties came to the table with their lawyers.  They were conscientious, flexible, very well prepared, and ready to make a deal.  Both parties were clearly committed to a win-win outcome. Their thorough preparation paid off. They reached agreement on an extremely sensitive custody matter and resolved [...]

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The Magical Power Of Photoreading!

February 19, 2010

Sometimes you find a great tool, technology, or method that you just have to share – it’s just too good. Photoreading is one I’d like to share with you. It’s really amazing stuff!! I have been using it since the early 1990’s and it has made my life so much easier. Indeed, I don’t know where I would be without it. It literally buys you time!

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Do You Want To Win Or Do You Want To Be “Right”?

February 15, 2010

2.15.10 Part 1 of 2 What is Winning? So you have thoroughly prepared, prioritized your concessions, established your bottom line, and entered into negotiation with a win-win mindset.  The negotiation could be a new business deal, a mediation to settle some old business, a relationship issue, or just about anything else… What happens if, in [...]

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Who Dat? Don’t taint the Saints!

January 31, 2010

In the name of marketing/licensing dollars, the NFL has completely blown an opportunity to build untold goodwill with this fan base, uplift New Orleans, and boost its underlying economy.

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Blood Sugar & Negotiation?

January 30, 2010

I have always recommended that people have snacks available during lengthy negotiations and most of us have  heard the advice to “eat first, then do business”…  Well, here is a study that reinforces it even further. A recent study at the University of South Dakota unveiled how blood glucose levels impact the way we think [...]

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Planning The New Year – The Right Way!

January 29, 2010

I love this part of the year.  Spring is on the way and with it comes a fresh outlook and spring planning.  Planning is such a rewarding process – in negotiation, in business, and in life. For me, the year really comes alive when I prepare new goals/desires/intentions for the coming year, do some assessing, [...]

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How To Win The Holiday Game: Power Tools To Get The Outcome You Want

December 11, 2009

I am so excited about this weekend! My friend Linda and I have been talking about doing a tele-seminar for a while now and it’s finally happened! Here is the class description – hope you can join us! http://www.worldchangingwisdom.com/optins/hand.html How To Win The Holiday Game: Power Tools To Get The Outcome You Want. It’s your [...]

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